"Paragon" or "Renegade" What Would it be?

I do like the description from BioWare about morality choices in Mass Effect Trilogy. You can check them here. Basically, you can't change what you've done, whether good or bad. Yesterday I was playing Star Wars Galaxy of Heroes and a very promising guild mate left the guild. My first initial reaction was hurt, anger, but then I thought: "What would be a paragon choice here?" Of course, it will be to keep helping the other guild members and try to compensate as much as possible for the loss. Each time you have a choice in a game you can either be inactive (Renegade) or be compassionate, caring and helping (Paragon). In other words, take responsibility for your actions whether they are more Paragon like or Renegade like. I'm not saying one is better than the other, just be conscious of your choices. Here are some examples where I try to apply this approach:

• Not blaming the other team in HotS
• Giving constructive feedback to your teammates (HotS and SWGoH are the only games I play with teams)
• Giving your guildmates all your knowledge (SWGoH)

It's absolutely the same for me in the real life: work, trainings, communication with family and friends, going to the supermarket, charity or whatever you choose. When you're facing a choice most of us are acting instinctively. We rarely think about each choice, because it would be too hard for the brain. Still, if we want to become something we are currently not, always ask the "Shepard Question": would this be a Paragon or a Renegade choice?

Let me know a situation where you've used this question in the comments below.

Keep learning and may the Force be with you!